Mediation could be worth exploring

Nothing in your answers suggests that mediation should be ruled out. Based on what you've told us, mediation may offer a practical way to work through the issues you've identified.

Below, we've explained what your responses may mean for mediation in your situation.

Your next step is a MIAM

The usual next step is a MIAM (Mediation Information and Assessment Meeting) - a private, individual meeting with a family mediator.

You can explain your situation, ask questions and consider whether mediation is appropriate before deciding whether you want to continue.

Attending a MIAM does not commit you to mediation.

Mediation may still be possible

Your answer suggests that there may be concerns about feeling safe, comfortable or able to speak freely.

That does not automatically mean mediation is unsuitable. It does mean that your concerns should be be discussed privately with a mediator before any joint mediation is considered.

A mediator can consider your circumstances, whether you would be able to participate freely and whether mediation could be appropriate and safely arranged.

Your next step is a MIAM

The usual next step is a MIAM (Mediation Information and Assessment Meeting) - a private, individual meeting with a family mediator.

You can explain your situation and any concerns privately. The mediator will consider whether mediation is appropriate before any joint session takes place.

Attending a MIAM does not commit you to mediation or to meeting jointly with the other person.